be happy to have a well-manner and 'know-to-think-properly' family

i was at my bf's hometown last weekend ... his bro wedding ... very "yit lau" ... and, there are many good friends and family members who contribute their ideas & experiences too ... hehehe, coz this family is first timer experiencing this kind of event. And, i find that there are alot of ppl at my age / one year older leading a quite successful working life .. i mean, they are like a professional ppl, smart thinking, won't talk non-sense (but can definitely joke!!!), travels alot and meet all sort of ppl ...

there are certain ppl ... very men-siasui-kan ... give angpau with fake money pulak!! and, not writing the name on the angpau ... another case .... , may not be appropriate/any rights for me to condemn certain ppl attitude ... there are certain ppl who is so one-type-mind ... entah-lah, just not respecting the event at all (be it during the time of trying to "invite" the bride or during the dinner time) ... and some ppl (like me) will think that this ppl are not well-manners and giving hard time for the newly wed couple ... ... actually, i've written the whole thing that i wanna complain .. but, like i said, who is me to condemn ...

talking bout relative and in-laws ... i happen to know a 'distant' relative of my another relative (see .. how kepoh i am till i know so many "juicy" news) ... she's from a rich family with 2 sons and 1 daugther. This eldest son marrying a gal (not beautiful and from a less rich family and just finish her college...i think, some sort like a diploma only) and this marriage is "terpaksa"-type-of-marriage (u shld get what i mean) ... wow, this lady's mom, really tengah "mengorek" this rich family "gold mountain"!!! during wedding dinner, already ask for a lot of "free" table .. meaning, the guy side will pay for the cost while the lady side will get all the angpau from the lady's relative (so 'cheapy') ... then, now the lady's mother is going to her daughter place (the in-law house) everyday!!! the lady is calling her mom everyday also !!! The lady and the mother is darn healthy (thus, not calling/seeing each other for the sake of knowing each other condition) and by doing this, they are showing the outsider that this lady is not happy there. Wah-lau .. this 'distant' relative of mine, is a very very "chin chai" lady and good attitude too. This lady's bro also join the rich family company liow (and, manage to secure a good position eventhough he has a low education profile and less experience). The lady also working along with her hubby in this rich company (inexperience and work less and can easily get rm2000++!!). Her hubby will give her monthly expenses which she'll give most of it to her mom. This lady mother no longer need to work, whole house expenses from this lady and house has been renovated (with air-cond and new furniture) . ai ... ai ... ai ...