DOWN down ... up UP UP

omg ... i'm easily getting pessimistic nowadays ... where have all my happy-go-lucky attitude gone? why i'm no longer easy-going gal? why i'm no longer having the "take it easy" attitude? why i've been thinking & analyzing a lot? why do i complain alot? why do i so easily get irritated?

when little things ain't goin the way i want OR
when unfairness happen around me OR
when i've given so much but no1 knows but myself

i'll get upset and keep complaining. That's what i do .. complain to forget bout the unhappy things. I really must forget and ignore. It's not really doing me any good. That's it!! Let me regain my energy by stepping back.

Lets enjoy some of the Sun Tzu's Art of War ... we really can implement these in real life

There are five essentials for victory:

(1) He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.

(2) He will win who knows how to handle both superior and inferior forces.

(3) He will win whose army is animated by the same spirit throughout all its ranks.

(4) He will win who, prepared himself, waits to take the enemy unprepared.

(5) He will win who has military capacity and is not interfered with by the sovereign.

Hence the saying:

If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.

By discovering the enemy's dispositions and remaining invisible ourselves, we can keep our forces concentrated, while the enemy's must be divided.

Move not unless you see an advantage; use not your troops unless there is something to be gained; fight not unless the position is critical. If it is to your advantage, make a forward move; if not, stay where you are. Anger may in time change to gladness; vexation may be succeeded by content.

I'll pamper myself this evening with delicious cheese cake :D

Oh .. the title of my blog .. it's actually means that i'm feeling down down down .. but, i will soon feel energetic again