wedding dinner is profitable?
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i've received alot wedding invititation .. some from my close friends and some from NOT SO CLOSED ppl (see .. i'm using the word,ppl and not friends ... unless we have been in the same project for those colleagues or u r my school friends .. school = college/secondary/primary). I'm really funny coz i did ask a colleague to invite me to his wedding coz i wanna meet my previous project-mates (like a gathering). kekekekeke
The first question in your mind is who should u invite? But would you invite the whole world knowing that they won't attend and the venue wasn't big enough either!! My gosh, like a tactic to profit from this event. Or maybe that person really too happy and excited and that he just wanna share his happiness. Only god knows. Anyhow, i sincerely wishing them a blissful marriage and i'm not attending :P
but for me, i'll be sure inviting those who have invited me to their wedding last time ... so sorry bout that coz knowing that we weren't that close now (after long time of not contacting) yet i have to invite you :P ... (u know, like chinese saying .. "ada datang, ada pergi")
i've received alot wedding invititation .. some from my close friends and some from NOT SO CLOSED ppl (see .. i'm using the word,ppl and not friends ... unless we have been in the same project for those colleagues or u r my school friends .. school = college/secondary/primary). I'm really funny coz i did ask a colleague to invite me to his wedding coz i wanna meet my previous project-mates (like a gathering). kekekekeke
The first question in your mind is who should u invite? But would you invite the whole world knowing that they won't attend and the venue wasn't big enough either!! My gosh, like a tactic to profit from this event. Or maybe that person really too happy and excited and that he just wanna share his happiness. Only god knows. Anyhow, i sincerely wishing them a blissful marriage and i'm not attending :P
but for me, i'll be sure inviting those who have invited me to their wedding last time ... so sorry bout that coz knowing that we weren't that close now (after long time of not contacting) yet i have to invite you :P ... (u know, like chinese saying .. "ada datang, ada pergi")
laypeng's OUTPUT @ 10:56 AM
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At October 16, 2006 11:56 AM,
Anonymous said…
Wedding dinner is profitable? The answer is should "breakeven". Wedding time is the time to test your popularity among all the ppl you know. I used the term ppl because no matter who you are, you still a ppl in definition, but a ppl with many roles, either friend (close, not so close, ex, new), colleague, relative .....
When you prepare the invitee list, normally you will invite the ppl that you know or you think you know. If your list is short means in your life, you are quited isolated. On the other hand, when you have a long invitees but the turn up rate is low, then it means your popularity index is not that high. But on the other hand, if you get invited and have no intention of participating, it is ok too, then just let the person know you are not free to go and dont have to waste another card. Anyway, there is no rules saying that you must give "Ang Pow" if ppl invite you for a wedding dinner. Not sure why such custom exist, it makes the wedding dinner become so commercialize and have lost the real meaning of the event. To me, to host such event is to tell all the ppl that you know, u r getting married and u want to share such happiness with all the ppl that u know...
This is just my thought, it may not be true anyway....
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